We meet so many people every day. Countless acquaintances and newcomers are conversing with us day by day. No matter how many people meet and interact with so many people on a daily basis like this, it only catches a few to a few. Naturally we also want to be with and talk to a certain few people. In the same way, only a few of us are always included. Why doesn’t everyone catch everyone? What is the reason why everyone is attracted to a few?

If we look at what the real psychological reasons for this attraction and desire are, we can often predict this one reason in experience. The one who is always important, the one who understands this psychology without guiding himself and guides himself, and manipulates himself for the sake of others, he is loved by all.

As well as paying attention to the feelings of the companion and talking loudly emphasizing himself in any conversation, the companion will slowly withdraw. On the contrary, from time to time in that conversation, if you highlight the feelings, needs and opinions of the person present, he will realize that he is being recognized and will happily take the relationship to the next level.

This is the same situation in everyone's home. Between husband and wife, someone who respects the feelings of his or her spouse and listens to his or her opinions is well-adjusted to his or her marital status. Instead, he goes on to say that he is intelligent, that he is right in what he does, and that there are constant quarrels in life. With children, if we take their weights and point out mistakes and encourage them, they will not only love us, but will behave well in harmony with society.

The next thing we go overboard is how we behave in the market, in the malls. Before the seller who describes the item explains the properties of the item, people are more likely to buy the item as they are more focused on how the product you are buying will reduce the workload of housewives and simplify the work. How do I? How is my material? More important than that, how important are you? What is the use of this material for you? Proposing them that is the only simple way to succeed in sales. To this psychological rule, as everyone knows, there are no exceptions.

And by emphasizing the opinions of others and saying that we need to move forward, we do not have to lose our self-esteem. It is enough to realize that in any situation, any opinion, others will have a different opinion on them and give due respect and importance to their opinions. Forcing them to impose our opinion and thoughts will lead to the start of unnecessary cracks in that relationship. Sometimes in both conversations both opinions may be wrong. Both can go wrong when there is a complete lack of understanding of that concept in those days.

So let’s practice embracing everyone. Life and relationships thrive when the other person, regardless of his or her pride, values ​​the feelings of the other person.

Life is not about respecting our boss only and accepting his words as they are. Life is rich when we treat our relationships and co-workers with due respect and respect for their feelings. If we express this carefully day by day in all our conversations and actions, we will always be loyal and trustworthy to all our relatives, friends and clients.

Improve relationships, value feelings!